At the bottom of the box was a plastic sleeve encasing a yellowed, torn death notice from a newspaper. As I held it in my hands, I read the names: William, Henrietta, Grace, May (my grandmother), and Winifred, all familiar names I had heard throughout my childhood, but I never knew the relationships.
We knew very little about my grandmother’s past. We were told she had grown up as an orphan in Detroit, Michigan. Her father, after arriving from Ireland, had given the children up because of poverty. The only fact offered about her mother were the words, “She died”.
Standing in my grandmother’s room for the last time, I instinctively knew this tiny scrap of paper was an important keepsake although its significance was unknown. Later I would learn I held in my hand the threads to weave the story of her past.
Your post really reminds of the real urgent need for family researchers to contact and discuss the matters of what happens to family members "things" after they die unless important info gets dispersed to the 4 winds forever or worse destroyed
ReplyDeleteHow true! My father died recently and there were some things my sister was going to throw out as "junk". But those tiny pieces are important clues to not only his life, but also other realms of our family history.
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